Thursday, December 4, 2008

Ass Hole!

OMG Jace is being a funcking prick to me today!
we woke up fighting this morning, he rolled out of bed saying "while im at work you NEED to clean the house." I told him no bc i have to go to work today too and im tired as hell so im gonna go back to sleep for a little while longer ( iv been really tired this past week for some reason, prolly all the stress from my nanny dieing ) And he gets all pissed off at me saying, "all you hav been doing is sleeping and not taking any adult responsibility, and thats all you do is make excuses like your tired or you sick and i dont believe you anymore!" (iv been a little sick this past week too for some reason)
I said, "hey! iv just been tired for this past week! and you cant say shit about me not taking responsibility, i go to work and come home to take care of Makayla and deal with you, all you do is go to work and then come home and complain about how i dont do enough!"
He said, "bull shit! im the one doin all the work, working and coming home to deal with you and my dad and help take care of Makayla and your not working 40+ hours a week like i am"
I said, "well you know what? im not cleaning this house by myself bc i think that i do plenty for you and you need to get off your lazy ass and help! The only things that you help with Makayla are sometimes you feed her and sometimes you change her but the rest of the time im taking care of her, sometimes i really need a break and some help with watching her, and i love the fact that you think that when i say i feel bad or feel tired that its just an excuse i cant help it if iv been really tired and neausas this past week!!! Im usually never like this and im always doin more then you!"
So by this point he was screaming at me saying "you dont do anything but sleep and be lazy and always find some reason to get out of taking responsibility iv been paying the bills and taking care of you till you got your job, you never do what you say that your gonna do, your not being the wife that you said you were gonna be! Its days like this when i really question if i should hav married you or not!"
I said, "i cant help it for this past week idk whats wrong with me or why iv been feeling so tired, this has been a really hard week for me, but i never act like this, and if you feel like questioning weather or not you should hav married me then how about i just stay at my moms tonight."
He said, "if you go there and stay tonight, then just dont come back."


So we finally decided that we should let my mom take care of Makayla tonight and we will come home tonight bc he gets off at 9pm and i get off at 10pm and we will clean the hosue together...
it still doesnt fix the fact that he was an ass hole to me today tho, when i cant help it if i feel sick.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

aw tiff I'm so sorry. yall are just both so stressed out, with your nanny passing away and his dad being a shit and yall are new parents and being married is so hard.

but if he tells you to leave again, do it, and take your baby and don't go back. if he wants to play THAT game, you will win, and he'll be sorry. Don't let him jerk you around like that.
marriage is about working through problems, not trunning away when things get hard he should know that.